"Take me out to the ball game....take me out to the
crowd!" These are words I sang many times at Cub's games while Jen
and I lived our childless life in the city. Even after kids we were lucky
enough to take JD and Connor to a game and meet, then Cub David DeJesus, during
warm-ups. Jen and I often talk about how
exciting it will be to watch Connor play sports as he grows while having JD
with us cheering him on. Same with JD
attending Kaitlyn’s events to support her athletic adventures. However, In all
honestly, I never really let myself picture JD playing any sports because…well,
I just could not picture it. But all
that changed on Friday.
JD has been attending school now for a few weeks. As Jen wrote in the last post, JD has been
thriving and loving it. He comes home
happy, exhausted and most times asleep from the bus ride. Teachers give such raving reviews and you can
really feel their love for him. However, that is all for another post. This is about my realization that I have been
limiting my visions of what JD can enjoy while growing up.
Last Friday, I took off from work and drove with Jen down to
the baseball diamond with the Kaitlyn and Connor meeting up with the
grandparents. JD had a large cheering section. We walked around meeting other
parents and talking to his teachers as we waited for another the other school to
arrive to battle JD “Stretch” Gawel’s Fairwood Frogs! I found myself wandering
around with Connor before the game, not because I was bored (the game started
almost an hour late) but because I found myself getting anxious.
Not the “before a big presentation” anxiety
or the “right before one of his surgeries” worry…but the “oh man, I hope he is
ready for the game” excitement.
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| JD's cheering section |
Before any real baseball game begins, there is the National
Anthem! This game was no different. Sitting out on the diamond with one of his
classmates, was JD with the American Flag while a recording of LeAnn Rimes
belted over the speakers. While her
voice was pre-recorded and overly produced (Jen prefers the Whitney Houston or
Carrie Underwood versions) our emotions were pure and happening in real-time. I was proud, VERY proud. There sat JD, the center of everyone’s
attention, just hanging out waiting for the game to start not realizing how
many people were there believing in him.
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| JD out for the National Anthem! |
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| Fairwood Frogs Line-Up |
After the Anthem I paced back and forth waiting for JD to
bat.
Yes, one of his teachers would
physically swing the bat.
Yes, one of
his teachers would be his legs and push him around the bases.
But nothing could lessen the amount of pride
and love I had for JD at that moment. Did I mention he hit a home run!
The rest of the game flew by and we enjoyed a
quick picnic afterwards.
Nothing else
really mattered except Jen and I feel JD really had a good time. I mean a
REALLY great time.
There were many
moments of smiles and he never coughed or whined once.
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| Getting Pumped for the Game! |
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| About to go to Bat |
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| Calling his shot |
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| Rounding first |
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| Proud family (minus Kaitlyn who was sleeping) of the MVP |
While I am sure JD learned something valuable that day…like
which way to go around the bases, I learned that I have been looking down a
narrow tunnel of what I can imagine JD doing.
I have always been thinking about one day forward, will he learn to
communicate through a switch, can he say yes/no, and will he ever sit up on his
own?
I now realize I need to think about
JD in a different way as well.
Will he
like baseball or soccer?
Will he enjoy
musicals or plays?
What will he look
like in a graduation gown?
Will he want
to play video games with his friends or just hang around outside talking about
who knows what? JD is more than a child that needs our support and extra
care.
He is a child, a child who wants
to hang out and do kid things.
“For its root, root, root for J…D…”
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| Resting after the game. |
